International Women's Day, 2019 |
Greetings, fellow South Pacificans,
You may not be aware, but today is International Women's Day and we want to celebrate that as a region. This is the internet - we're all aware of that and, as is common online, perhaps even more so than in the real world, women are not strongly represented in our community. A recent survey of the Assembly of the South Pacific (http://tspforums.xyz/thread-5131-post-18...#pid182712) revealed that, of 18 Legislators who responded, only one was female. Of the twelve regional officers listed on our World Factbook Entry, only two are female: Minister of Military Affairs Nakarisaune and Local Councillor Auphelia. And yet, I know from interactions on our Regional Message Board, Discord server and forums that many more female players engage with the region all the time and many more are probably sitting silently on the sidelines. Well, not today - today we want to celebrate our female membership! If you're a girl or woman, cis or trans-gendered, please take the opportunity today to introduce yourself and tell your story. We want to hear more about you and, hopefully, encourage you to be more involved in the region from today onwards - because we don't just want to hear from the girls one day a year, we want you to be part of an equal partnership and dialogue all year round! Feel free to chat about this below! Founder of the Church of the South Pacific [Forum Thread] [Discord], a safe place to discuss spirituality for people of all faiths and none (currently looking for those interested in prayer and/or "home" groups);
And The Silicon Pens [Discord], a writer's group for the South Pacific and beyond! Yahweo usenneo ir varleo, ihraneo jurlaweo hraseu seu, ir jiweveo arladi. Salma 145:8
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On being female in NationStates: I find it would be impossible to ignore being in a minority here. For one, it kind of automatically makes you stand out a bit, and I think that can contribute to achieving prominence - at least, I found when I first started getting involved that people paid a bit more attention to me because I was female. I don't think that was always for the right reason. There was a lot of flirting that, when I was younger, I took as a compliment, but looking back on it... there was a lot of it, that sometimes went too far, from people who barely knew me, and were clearly paying attention just because of my gender. Ah, hindsight. I wouldn't go so far as to say it was harassment. But at the time it just seemed like the natural price of being female on the internet, and it shouldn't be.
On the other hand, I think it helped me in some ways. Now, I realise I was pretty much only getting attention because I was female, but it absolutely helped my confidence a lot. And gaining that confidence, and automatically standing out a bit, absolutely assisted me in NS. At times, I can feel a bit like a token - for a long time I was the only female with real power in... basically the whole of Defenderdom But hey, better than having no women active in leadership at all... I think it's a shame that there are so few of us around. But there's always room for more <3
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Thank you for that, it was a really interesting perspective, made all the more valuable for the fact that it's the only one we've got so far.
Founder of the Church of the South Pacific [Forum Thread] [Discord], a safe place to discuss spirituality for people of all faiths and none (currently looking for those interested in prayer and/or "home" groups);
And The Silicon Pens [Discord], a writer's group for the South Pacific and beyond! Yahweo usenneo ir varleo, ihraneo jurlaweo hraseu seu, ir jiweveo arladi. Salma 145:8
I don’t think I’m the best woman to ask about this sort of stuff, but no one else seems to be posting so here I am.
My mom isn’t very feminine, and I think her reluctance to participate in those female bonding things is sorta a key reason for where I am right now. Instead, we bonded over silly things like apps for our phones, which is how I found this site btw, did you know there was once a nationstates app? Anyhow, my life didn’t become more equal after that, I was surrounded by men which was alienating. School was full of boys, talk of boys, and male teachers were in every classroom. Of course I had gal pals and we talked, but I don’t think we ever talked about what it means to be a woman. We did, however, talk about what it means to be a man, which I think is funny in a twisted sense of the word. Overall I would describe my femininity as male adjacent. I’m not defined by men, but I also can’t be separated from them. They’re sorta everywhere if you haven’t noticed and kinda hard to distance yourself from. I don’t think there’s one type of femininity that we can all crowd under, I don’t think there’s one definition of the word, there’s just expectations. I don’t know if that’s what you wanted, but now you have it.
Many of my hobbies, including Nation States, tend to attract more male participants than female. Being in the minority hinders my enjoyment because I feel as if I have to be a representative of my gender. Failures and successes that should be attributed to my individual abilities (or lack of), become used as examples of how skilled my entire gender is. As I become more aware of this, I stop enjoying the activity because I focus on how I should be performing to adequately represent my gender. I feel more comfortable in groups where I'm not looked to as an exemplar.
Here’s what our RMB Goddess has to say about being a woman!
"Auphelia” Wrote:Exactly!
I don't really want to talk about my personal experience here (cause I'm an awkward gal), but happy international women's day Love you all and thanks for being as inclusive as can, keep trying your best Remember, we all matter. Except me. Cause I energy.
P.S. (Just a joke obviously, you do all matter a lot, even if others say you don't you matter a lot to me at least )
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I'm more active gameside than here but either place I'd love to talk ^-^
Well I'll introduce myself. I as well am a girl and although I do have a lot of personal experience with some things I won't get in to that as it's a lot. I personally like the community in nation states because most here are supportive and understand of one another and do not go around harassing others which I love. Happy international women's day though
I love this thread! If anyone else wants to contribute, feel free. IWD may be over, but that's hardly the point. Founder of the Church of the South Pacific [Forum Thread] [Discord], a safe place to discuss spirituality for people of all faiths and none (currently looking for those interested in prayer and/or "home" groups);
And The Silicon Pens [Discord], a writer's group for the South Pacific and beyond! Yahweo usenneo ir varleo, ihraneo jurlaweo hraseu seu, ir jiweveo arladi. Salma 145:8
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