(05-04-2016, 05:31 AM)The Solar System Scope Wrote:

(05-03-2016, 06:56 PM)RandomGuy199 Wrote:

(05-03-2016, 01:11 AM)Seraph Wrote: May I ask what's troubling you?

Do you know the term "friendzone"? Well, I'm in one, and it ****ing sucks. There is this girl at school, a really close friend of mine, that I like. I haven't told her or anything, but it's very clear that she is not interested. Besides, even if I had the nerve to speak up (I don't), she has a boyfriend, so I'm afraid things may get awkward if I say anything.

I'm trying to forget about it all, but it's hard as hell.

*Drinks a bottle of rum*

Huh. That's why I never even think about romantic relationships (is that the correct term? I'm not sure), just the existence of friends is a wonder large enough for me.
Don't worry though, things like this always get sorted out, eventually. Give it some time, that's all.

That's a good attitude to have. It's always good to be thankful for what you do have.

Unfortunately the battle between the mind and the emotions (or even the hormones) can be a very difficult one to win for some people. It certainly took me a long time to accept being single. In many ways I was lucky (well I believe it was an answer to prayer) in that I met my wife almost immediately after I came to terms with my single status.

Perhaps there is something to the idea that the best way to find something is to stop looking.